Over at Afterwards Suzy wrote a new post. One of the commenters on that post asked what Suzy Q’s and Raisin’s professions are now. A little while ago when I checked, Suzy had answered, but she DIDN’T say telemarketer. In fact she listed two different but related professions. Now her comment is gone.
Hmmmm…..
UPDATE: Suzy has now listed one of the two professions again. What’s up with this? And why can’t I just get a life??
Banned from the Bitchfest: Pink Truth Can Bite My Ass 
mkrealist said
Unfortunately, I believe SuzyQ is the type of person who internalizes everything everyone says about her. She takes all this shit personally and I think she even admitted that publically. So I’m not surprised to see her wavering on what she allows “out there” in terms of her image and what others may or may not comment on.
It’s got to be tough when your confidence is already low because of your inability to find work you really enjoy AND you actually care what other people think about you.
In that vein, I really think your barbs are a little misguided even though you’re aiming at an easy target. Don’t become the bully you write about.
I think we ALL wished she would/could have publically denounced TC. But she has not and probably won’t any time soon, if ever. She has bigger fish to fry right now.
JMHO…
mrsmetaphor said
I resonate with that as well, MKR…I tend to take things said about me personally so I can see what you’re saying. I say we just give them their space let them do what they set out to do.
Oh please don’t ban me now, Duh…
mrsmetaphor said
besides, that sherlock holmes hat makes yer hair look weird.
Duh said
I’m sorry you feel that demanding people to be honest about themselves is being a bully, MK Realist. But here’s my thinking. I thought about NOT posting this for the very reason you just gave. But what I’ve learned is that weepy “you’ve hurt my feelings” act is just that… an act. It allows people (women usually) to get away with behavior because people are scared to upset them.
To that I say, “Bullshit”. Suzy didn’t answer the question the girl asked truthfully. If she did, then WHY did she change it? The fact that Suzy will get upset because I’m pointing out her inconsistencies will not deter me from laying out the facts and letting you decide whether or not you want to trust a person that does this.
If Tracy were to do something like this, and I caught it, I would have no problem pointing it out. The fact that I even THOUGHT about not bringing this up shows how manipulating this type of person is. Suzy doesn’t have to answer my questions, and you or anyone else reading this can do with the information what you will. It makes no difference to me.
Word of advice to Suzy, Tracy, Raisin, and anyone else attempting to influence people with a blog, book, article, etc.:
Don’t try to hide who you are. Don’t try to pretend you are something you are not. Because there are always people like me who will see what you are doing and demand the truth. If the truth is embarrassing or you are caught in a lie in the process, so be it.
Now I KNOW there are a lot of you that like Suzy Q. Fine with me! If you don’t like what I have to say about her, go ahead and defend her. At least I give you the OPTION of disagreeing with me. So at the end of every defense for her, I expect a hardy “thank you”. And when I say hardy, I mean HARDY. All caps baby!!
Sickie/Happy said
*HARDY*
mrsmetaphor said
“But what I’ve learned is that weepy “you’ve hurt my feelings” act is just that… an act. It allows people (women usually) to get away with behavior because people are scared to upset them.”
I dunno…I don’t think that was MY motivation when you hurt my feelings…for me it was about being judged incorrectly…or maybe you were RIGHT! ah…ha! Nope, you were wrong…but then, so was I about you.
“Don’t try to hide who you are. Don’t try to pretend you are something you are not. Because there are always people like me who will see what you are doing and demand the truth. If the truth is embarrassing or you are caught in a lie in the process, so be it.”
This, I absolutely agree with, thanks Duh.
Do we have to pay tribute to you as well, because you are a “kind” God?
(Just watched 300 a couple of nights ago…wow, that movie was INTENSE….)
mkrealist said
In terms of the bully comment, I guess my only question to you would be, are you going after Suzy and Raisin because of their continued affiliation with TC, or because you really seek out inconsistencies and BS on ALL (aniti)MK-related blogs?
Cuz thus far, unless I’ve missed it, which is entirely possibly, most of your ammo has been directed towards TC and TC alone. Those of us who never liked TC or who have come to dislike her for various reasons, have been welcomed here and not subjected to your HyperScrutiny over our “inconsistencies.”
Simply put, are you picking on her because she’s SuzyQ or because she’s SuzyQWhoUsedToPostOnPTAndStillLikesTC?
Duh said
I was just having a discussion about this Mrs. Would anything I say hurt your feelings now? Not just me, but if anyone on the internet said something about you, would it hurt your feelings?
My friend was saying that now that she’s been hanging around my site where she can say what she wants, she KNOWS herself better. It doesn’t hurt her feelings to have someone she doesn’t know say stuff about her or disagree with her because she’s confident in herself. When you are in an environment that makes you feel bad about your opinions, you have to pretend to be something you’re not. Then when someone calls you on it, you feel even worse because you don’t know if they are right or not.
So, I guess I’m manipulating people into thinking for themselves and being secure in who they are and what their beliefs are. Bad Duh.
Duh said
MK Realist-
I guess I just search out inconsistencies where ever I happen to be. I’m not trying to police the whole internet. I just happen to go to Afterwards a lot recently because it’s new. The connection to TC also means that she’ll post comments there which is always good for me!
I have disagreed with Me for sure, and some others. The difference is that they generally allow me to voice my disagreement on their blog, so I don’t have to bring the argument back over here. When I go to other blogs, I’m respectful and give my opinion honestly sans swear words. The only times I’ve EVER been edited or had my comment deleted is Afterwards and PT.
Dizzy’s blog was one exception where I probably should have been banned. LOL But Dizzy herself enjoyed my shenanigans, and often encouraged me to come back to stir things up over there. In that instance I have to fall back on the age old excuse of, “SHE STARTED IT!”
MKV said
I think she might have taken it down because she doesn’t want to be outted. She still has lots of friends in MK who have no idea that she’s SuzyQ. And that I can understand. I have lots of friends in MK who have no idea I’m MKV (or Cougar, DGW, etc…) Whether I tell them or not is based on their “need to know”.
MKV said
Duh, OMG, you just reminded me of the good ole’ days when everyone was trying to figure out who this “duh” retard was! We HATED you, but kinda loved you at the same time.
mrsmetaphor said
Hmmm….that’s a good question Duh. Actually I think I’d still be offended if I was trashed on a blog with people I didn’t “know.” I’m just sensitive that way (ask Julz…). It also depends on the time of the month, honestly. BUT, what I’d do NOW, rather than stew in it and talk about it with other people who are ALSO trashed and pissed off (which is what I did last time) is to do what I did AFTER that…and that is to contact the person and ask them about it…(“what’s yer damage, dude?”)
Duh said
Well, I understand that, although I don’t agree with it. I guess I should say, I don’t agree with it for me. It just seems hard to be living a sort of double life. How do you remember who you’ve divulged what to? And what if someone accidentally gives info away about you that you didn’t want out? Is is a big deal or not? If it’s not a big deal, then why keep it a secret? If it is a big deal, what do you do? Curl up in a ball?
I’m just to dumb to keep up with all that stuff! I’m a horrible liar too. (Not that you are a “liar”, MKV, but you have to lie by omission to keep yourself protected, right?) Life is so much simpler when I’m open and honest about who I am. I like simple. Simple good.
Duped said
I have a feeling that perhaps most are being defensive because they care personally for SuzyQ, which is fine – we all defend our friends most of the time (unless they are being grade A retards, then we beat them with a bat…with love of course). However, I have to agree with Duh mostly on what she has written here – the inconsistencies of the posts at Afterward are a bit hard to ignore.
I know it’s hard when someone points out something which may not put your friend in a golden light, but the fact remains – Duh’s comments are valid. I don’t think she is being a “bully”. I see that term used when it definitely SHOULD NOT be soooo fucking often it makes me want to vomit.
Just because someone is calling you out on your inconsistencies, the fact that you may have been caught in a lie, or H-I-P-P-O-C-R-A-C-Y…(damn)…does not mean that they are “bullying” you.
Of course, I am sticking my foot in here when I really shouldn’t – this is between you girls, and my opinion should be kept out of it. I just couldn’t help myself. 😛 Do with my comment as you may, I suppose. I respect all of you that have posted on this and I am not trying to be an asshole. For once. 🙂
Fart knockers.
Duh said
Haha MKV! I told you guys who I was from the beginning. Ya’ll just didn’t do any research. I gave you my My Space and said I had over a hundred friends, and you guys made fun of me. LOL I TOLD you a lot of people like me!
Duh said
As if your opinion is any less valuable than ours, Duped! None of our opinions are worth a piddler’s fart. (<—– That came straight from my subconscious right there.)
mrsmetaphor said
So when is the AntiDuh blog gonna post something besides Wonder Woman?? I mean, I like Wonder woman but it’s so…yesterday, you know?
Duh said
Did you guys know that creator of Wonder Woman was into sexual bondage? He tried to put in as many bondage scenarios as possible without being censored.
Lasso of Truth, my ass!
MKV said
I used to try to maintain and keep up with all my identities, and it was truly maddening. It was such a relief when I finally outted all my different personalities here on “duh”. LOL. And it is nice to co-own and write on MKV as Cindy. But geez, I’m not going to make an official public announcement in a mass email to all my MK friends declaring who I am in my spare time on the internet! If they figure it out, great! If not, great!
Duh said
Yeah, they’d just think you were a freak. Don’t do the mass email thing.
If I did that to my friends I’d get a lot of emails back. They’d all say, “So?” or “And?” or “What’s your fucking point? Stop wasting my time, beeotch?”
Cause my friends love me lots.
Dana said
Duh, you’re a bully. I think I’ll start a new blog about that too.
http://www.duhsucksbecauseshebullieswhineysuzyq.wordpress.com
mkrules said
Duh, Why can’t you get a life? LOL LOL LOL
Too funny.
princessedamame said
I think that people need to grow a thicker skin when they are playing on the internet. Have I read things that may have otherwise hurt my feelings? Sure, but they didn’t because they were on the ‘net and I didn’t care.
The anonymity that provides us with the ability to say harsh things without using the mental filter must be taken into account when reading negative things about oneself. I’m reminded of reading this about mycyberself: “The Only Throne She Sits on it the Toilet” and “The Royal Pain in the Ass”. Sure when they were written, they were written in jest, and I realized that at the time. I even thought them hilarious, and said so. But had they been said to my face by someone I know, even in jest, they could have been very hurtful.
Or maybe I just need to think of the top 10 reasons no one jumps my shit…
Duh said
You should write that list, Princess. Next to the top 10 reasons why I rock the house, it’s the best way to build yourself up. I know I felt better after writing it!
mkrules said
They should not care what I, you, or anyone else thinks of them. But if you put yourself out there, you have to be ready to accept a question about what you write. If you only want good comments, don’t allow comments, or ask TC for some deleting and editing tips. 🙂
Suzy and Raisinberry: I’m sure you are great people. Just because I didn’t like the references such as MK being a big pink rapist does not mean I don’t like you. Heck, I don’t even know you. I only know what you let me see.
One of Sixteen Vestal Virgins said
oh forgive me duh because i see you are all fired up today.
HARDY HAR HAR HAR! lol
i think wel ALL need a new hobby and fast!
Not a Bee-liever said
True dat to all the comments above.
Dana said
Yes, Princess, when I said both those, they were totally jokes! I felt kinda guilty reading what you wrote above. 🙂
Dizzy from the Dastardly ways of Tracy said
The biggest issue for me right now is that I like Suz and I think her idea of the blog was a good one. My opinion is she’s not running it like it was intended. Either that or she didn’t give a good description of what exactly was supposed to be on it.
The fact that they are editing my name is one thing, and deleting or not allowing comments to go through is another one. Obviously they still like TC, or my name would not have been edited down to just “Dizzy”.
All this censoring shit gets old. Really old.
And yes DUH, you know I thought you were one crazy bitch when you appeared out of no where on my blog. But once past the initial shock factor I realized you were funny as hell and encouraged you to start drama. Those were the days.
HOOKERS!
Duh said
I miss your blog Dizzy. Those WERE good times!
Dizzy from the Dastardly ways of Tracy said
Yes they were good times. But it’s even more entertaining here I must say. YOu’ve been a buzy bitch today with all those posts. ScrewU will be proud when she reappears! LOL Damn…did I spell that word right? Reappear?
HOOKERS!
Duh said
Yeah, I had some time today because I decided the house didn’t need to get cleaned this week. No, I’m kidding. I cleaned yesterday so I could spend a whole chunk of time blogging.
Just wait until I start working. I’m going to be blogging up a storm!
Dizzy from the Dastardly ways of Tracy said
I’m scurred…….
Where the hell is everyone? It’s Friday night you damn bitches.
Duh said
I’m here. Wanna chat?
Duh said
BITCHES N HOOOOOOOs!!!!
Everytime I click on the chat link my browser window closes. So I put the address in manually, and it STILL closes!!! WTF??
One of Sixteen Vestal Virgins said
Umm – perhaps you must find your inner core before you chat? peace, my child, peace
lol – everything is going to be ok
Duh said
I think my Java is going patooie. Are you guys able to get in at all? Do ya care if you can get in? LOL Maybe I can find one that works for me too this time!
Dana said
I can get in. Of course, there’s never anyone there!
princessedamame said
Dana, puhleeze – I want you to not waste another thought on it. I rock so muc, that’s the “worst” anyone’s ever written about me. I find it hilarious, and have even stolen your phrases for use in every day life. Really, it was great.
I must rock if that’s the worst I can find about me online. Hmm – as a tribute to my favorite podcst (The Netcot Podcast http://www.netcot.com, and through iTunes), here ar the Top 7 Reasons I rock so much no one talks shit about me:
1. I may be a softy on the inside, but I have such a tough, salty shell no one dares.
2. No one knows who I really am, and how nasty I am in real life.
3. No one knows who I really am, so why waste their time?
4. You never know – I could really be a princess, and you may findyourself travelling through my kingdom (princessdom?) one day…muahaha
5. Y’all are a bunch of pussies.
6. I could really be Darrel Oversack. I mean Overcash.
7. I could really be Britney!
FOF said
Aw, I missed you guys! You are all just too much fun! They wouldn’t let me use the computer in rehab, something about trading one addiction for another, bla bla bla….but I just wanted to say “hi” before my 10 minutes at the library computer are up. Hope you are all having nice lives! We are still looking for a house…. way to keep it real Duh, you rock.
Peace.